Tag: Priestly Ministry

  • Oops, Wrong Number!

    Today I was doing some chores around the house when the phone rang. It was my Google Voice account alerting me that someone was trying to reach me. For those who don’t know what Google Voice is, it allows you to have one number which can ring to all your phones, has voicemail, and call screening. I don’t actually use it that much yet, though, so when I didn’t recognize the number or the name that was on the call screening, I hung up and let it go to voicemail.

    The caller left a voicemail, and asked if I was the person who worked on her company’s phones, and to please call her back. I could have ignored the call, but on the one hand, I didn’t want her to wonder why whomever she was trying to contact wasn’t returning her call, and on the other hand, I wanted to find out why my number was being handed out by a third party.

    I called her back, explained  that my number was a Google Voice number which perhaps used to belong to the person she was trying to reach, and that I was an Orthodox Christian priest, not a phone technician.  At that point, she mentioned that she might call me back asking for prayers some time, and I referred her to our website and told her about our Orthodox mission work in both Raleigh and Greenville. After mutual pleasantries, the phone call ended.

    I’ve come to learn that we can never know why things happen or what might result from the actions we take, and to not take any interaction for granted. I plan to send the lady a follow-up letter and invite her to services.  Something may happen, or nothing may come of it, but either way, I had a chance to pray for the woman and tell her about the Orthodox Church.  For this, I am thankful.  There are many stories of people coming to faith from the most unlikely ways.

  • Mission Is for All Christians

    Today, I saw an interesting Tweet (Twitter message) shared by a friend:

    The great commission wasn’t given to a missions organization, it was given to the Church.

    This is a great quote, and one which I wanted to share with my readers, most of whom are Orthodox Christians. Our context may be different than the Protestant world in which this quote was uttered, but it nevertheless provides a platform to discuss a critical topic.

    Mission organizations in modern times and in the Protestant context are generally para-Church organizations that seek to coordinate the efforts of training and supporting foreign missionaries. From what I can tell, these are usually distinct from Church planting or evangelistic organizations, which seek to reach the lost in one’s own nation.

    This type of organization is mostly indigenous to Protestantism, while Orthodox missions are generally under the guidance of the hierarchy of the Church. Commissions were made at various times to various peoples, but there was not, until recently, any effort to create a permanent missions department or structure.

    In the last century, however, the New Calendar Greek Church created the “Orthodox Christian Mission Center” to support foreign missions in various parts of the world, such as its sister Church in Albania, which was emerging from communism, and local missions departments have been created in various jurisdictions to facilitate the establishment of new Orthodox parishes domestically. In one sense, greater organization and cohesion is a benefit to missions, but there is a potential drawback, which the above quote illustrates.

    In the Protestant world, missionaries have mostly “gone professional.” A person or family feels a call to serve, researches a way to accomplish his goal, and selects the missions organization that is the best fit for them. They are trained, serve abroad, and occasionally return for support trips. Some do this as their career, while others serve a pre-set term and then return to their country of origin to assume a “regular” life. Church planting is likewise professionalized in many cases.

    This is not always the case; there are certainly some bi-vocational ministers and Church planters out there, along with missionaries who are working secular jobs in their host countries. I do not want to give the impression that I think it is a problem to have a professional, trained, full-time missions team or evangelism team, per se. However, there are some potential pitfalls as this model of mission has become dominate.

    One problem is that these mission organizations often act more like businesses than as a faithful group of believers united and acting together locally, knowing each other intimately, as a family. Another problem is that they make it easy for others to see missions and evangelization as someone else’s job. Because a Church member cooks for Church functions, or cleans the Church, or serves as the secretary, perhaps he or she feels that this is his or her role, while it is someone else’s role to share the Gospel and invite new people to the parish, or go abroad to serve. Sometimes, it is assumed that it is the pastor’s primary job to bring in new members, and Church boards will often have serious “sit downs” with pastors who are not getting the numbers up in a way that hits growth targets.

    In an Orthodox Christian context, it is the priest who is often assumed to be in charge of bringing new people in. Of course, it is also the priest’s job to teach, to minister to the sick, to serve the liturgies, conduct correspondence, and represent the parish at important ecclesiastical and civic functions. Laypeople often imagine their only role is to support the Church financially and do things around the Church that need to be done such as cleaning, cooking, and managing the finances.

    In reality, the priest’s primary responsibility is to equip the people, to teach them and guide them, so that they grow in Christ and go out and live as Christians, sharing the Gospel in both word and deed. Yes, a priest has a natural advantage in inviting others to Church since he is often recognized in public due to his specific priestly garb, but people expect a priest to invite them to Church. People don’t always expect their family members, friends, or neighbors to invite them, and often they will come, if just asked.

    People also tend to expect that a priest will explain the Christian faith in some official manner, and it is almost as if they can tune it out because they already know what he is going to say. For instance, if a layperson begins discussing the latest spiritual fad to appear on talk shows, and a priest criticizes it, even constructively, some people assume he’s biased or it’s his job to say things like that. When a concerned and educated lay member of the Church engages someone with such ideas, though, often one’s guard is let down, and hearts can be changed.

    Instead of acting as if it were someone else—be it a department, an organization, or a clergyman—who is responsible for doing the work of sharing our holy faith, let us grow in Christ ourselves, becoming spiritually mature. St. Peter instructs us thusly: “sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you” (1 Peter 3:15).

    We may not be the most articulate, knowledgeable, or experienced at this, and in fact we might find the prospect frightening at first. However, if we are open to Christ’s will, are enthusiastic, and we develop a genuine love for those around us and concern for their salvation, we will be given many opportunities to minister to and witness to them, in ways that we will be able to do so successfully. If we all share in the work, we will find many more people added to the rational flock of the Great Shepherd, and will have multipled the talent that was given to us (c.f. Matthew 25:14-30).

    Let’s get started today!

  • Priests Have Feelings, Too

    In a previous article, “Phone Calls That Never Lead to Visits,” I addressed the phenomenon of people contacting a priest to discuss visiting the parish, and then never showing up, and how this can be draining on priests.  In that article, I discussed how I had taken an approach to limit the length of the initial conversation, until the inquirer paid a visit to the parish in person.  The present article is a follow-up of sorts, and will focus on those who have gone beyond simply making a promise to visit, but have actually established a relationship with the priest, and then disappear.

    We often think of our priests as the go-to guys when life gets tough, and in fact, that is certainly a function that we priests fill.  Priests seem to have an unlimited supply of energy to deal with multiple problems simultaneously, and speaking to a priest about our struggles often alleviates them.  Priests then tend to become involved with people when they reach a critical phase in their life.  I might mention parenthetically that if we are actively engaging our faith and interacting with our priest when life is good, that we will have less chance of things developing into crisis mode in the first place, but human nature is what it is.

    Another type of interaction that a priest has involves those looking into the Orthodox Christian faith.  Contacting a priest is often a watershed moment, the moment when what we’ve been reading becomes suddenly tangible.  Here is a person who embodies the faith we are feeling called to, and it is no longer an idea, but a reality.  Such persons are quite naturally excited, and priests are often encouraged by their enthusiasm.  It can be a blessing for both parties.

    When people who are at a critical point in their life make contact with a priest and begin to open up to him about their situation, this creates a relationship.  With a relationship in turn comes responsibility; the priest has agreed to take on the case of someone who needs his help, and through prayer, study, discussion, and possibly action, will attempt to take a person from point A to point B.  The pastoral relationship involves trust, patience, and the building of rapport.

    Sometimes, those of us who are dealing with a crisis find resolution to our problems, and no longer need the priest’s help.  Sometimes, those of us looking into the Orthodox faith have second thoughts, or become overwhelmed, or find ourselves suddenly moving away from the area.  This will perhaps end the interaction with the priest.  Priests know this, and can adjust to the change, if they are prepared.  The problem comes when they are left in the dark.

    More often than some would imagine, people simply stop communicating with their priest when they no longer need him.  The inquirer may be embarrassed that he has taken the priest’s time, and now no longer wishes to pursue Orthodoxy. The person with a problem may have taken a course of action that the priest recommended against, and feels the priest will be upset.  It seems easier to simply let the contact lapse, as a confrontation would be unpleasant for both parties.

    This attitude is simply wrong.  Just as a priest takes on certain responsibilities in a pastoral relationship, so too does the one seeking the priest’s assistance.  Keeping proper communication is a key responsibility of a lay person.  A priest will try to follow up if he has not heard from someone, but in some cases, the follow-up emails or calls are not answered.  Priests are not trained to “take the hint” and stop contacting others when contact ceases, but instead are prone to become more concerned.

    Abruptly terminating contact with a priest after engaging him for help is inconsiderate, to say the least.  Like it or not, priests have feelings, too, and they should not be forced into a situation of worry or even of wondering, “what happened?”  Priests are adults, and can deal with changing circumstances.  The best thing to do if we no longer need a priest’s help is to let him know honestly what has happened or changed.  It may be an uncomfortable conversation, but it is the proper thing to do.  It provides resolution for both parties, and in fact, it is helpful in the event that later on, we change our minds.

    By this article, I do not seek to make anyone feel guilty, or to suggest that I am more concerned with the feelings of priests than the feelings of laypeople.  Instead, I seek to exhort the readers to always act charitably and responsibility in their dealings with priests, and not to neglect courtesy in dealing with them.  If a phone call is too emotionally difficult to make, an email or letter would be equally appreciated.  In a culture that has so often forgotten common courtesy, it is necessary to point this out simply to educate and inform.  May we ever strive to treat one another with courtesy and show concern for others.